From the Mailbag:
Hi Richard,
For what it’s worth, what motivates other people mostly I don’t give a poop about.
Shoot over to my http://www.exhostage.com site, maybe that will make sense.
So… what to do with your problem.
Simple.
We as humans have three levels of existence.
The first is we make up Excuses…. and believe they are real.
The problem, excuses don’t pay the bills.
So sooner or later we evolve, grow, get the freak out of that stage.
We get tired of being pathetic and poor.
Then we become Goal Driven - Stage 2.
We learn how to live live and move towards something that rocks us everyday. That could be a hummer, it could be a million bucks. It really is about feeling good… but we’ll get to that in a moment.
So being Goal Driven, step 2 is kool…. however…. at some point you realize that just getting to your goals is not making you happy.
So at either of these stages, drug addiction or becoming an arse is very possible.
In The First Stage, Excuse Driven, you see yourself as relatively powerless, so drugs are a great “out”. At the Goal Driven stage, you discover you still aren’t happy because…. you have stuff but something is still missing. So drugs, booze and parties become a great idea. Look at the celebrity problem with addiction.
Want what’s missing? Stage 3: SERVICE. Becoming a VISIONARY!
If you take the next step, which is “HOW DOES MY LIFE IMPACT THE WORLD?” and…
“HOW CAN I CHANGE THE WORLD with my daily life, my decisions, my way of thinking, my way of living…. “
Now juice shows up.
Personally….
I’m stomping out 1 Million excuses in 2008. Get me on your local TALK RADIO!
Get me on Oprah, Imus, Larry King!
Let’s bring the power home!
Why? Because excuses put the power outside of YOU.
This leads to Drug Addiction, and people believing that addiction is a disease….
This leads to broken marriages where the happiness is OUTSIDE of the marriage…
This leads to so much bullshit thinking and…. POVERTY… because the next administration will turn the economy around…
Anyhoo….
Bring the power home!
1. Choose to live a life that is excuse free. (Do the Program! It’s simple, and all you need to do is get a carabiner!)
2. Learn how to become goal driven so you can accomplish and get! Become accomplished! Whoo yah!
3. Learn the power of vision so you can accomplish and GIVE. This is the level of REAL SATISFACTION!
Mr. Twenty Twenty
The Ex Hostage - Professional Visionary
Formerly known as John Wingert
http://www.excusefreeworld.org - Go ahead buckwheat, help me stomp out 1 million excuses.
http://www.nlplive.com - Challenge your thinking….. Whoo yah!
PS: I didn’t know this would be a driving force in my life until I started noticing how excuse driven and drug tolerant how many people are. I love people, and want them to live, and love completely, and have a life with passion and purpose. When I see old friends and family members just “getting by” and tolerating their excuses….. Living a “let me tell you what happened” kind of life….